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Therapy for Dating and Relationships

Ask Yourself...

  • Do you feel anxious when starting to date someone new or when you get into a relationship?
  • Does it seem like you keep dating/marrying the same kind of person, and it ends the same way each time?
  • Do you find yourself altering your appearance, behavior, values or beliefs to attract or please a partner?
  • Do you feel like you cannot date/marry/commit yourself to someone because your family or friends don’t approve?
  • Do you have trouble feeling “seen” or “heard” in relationships – is your voice being heard?
  • Do you notice yourself sabotaging relationships?
  • Do you feel scared that he/she will leave you, reject you, or put your down if you are your true self?
  • Do you feel like you disregard “red flags” because he/she is “better than nothing” or you hope that he/she will change?
  • Do you want to go to couples/marital counseling, but have a partner who refuses to attend with you?

 

People develop certain relationship and coping skills during childhood and adolescence that are the result of circumstances at that given time. Sometimes these skills are necessary to have needs met, to feel cared for, and in some cases, to physically and/or emotionally survive. Unfortunately, these skills typically become less effective as you become an adult and may be causing problems in your adult relationships around maintaining trust, communication, resolving conflict, boundaries, intimacy and maintaining a sense of self while in relationship.

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Individual Relationship Therapy

You may desire a meaningful relationship but can’t seem to find it or the right one, or the opposite, and you can’t seem to commit or “settle down.” Or perhaps, you struggle to communicate, to be intimate, or resolve conflict. You may experience anxiety when in relationships that leads you to stop relationships before they can start.

In any of these cases, relationship therapy can help. At Center for Shared Insight, our Denver relationship therapists help you understand what is no longer working, how it impacts you, and how to change these patterns to enhance your relationships, especially the one with yourself. We offer relationship therapy focused on personal development, as well as love addiction, divorce, dating, and marriage.

Contact us today to see how our specialized team of therapists can help. Read more on our blog about dating, relationships, and beyond.

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Testimonial

David Rakofsky, Psy.D.

"Having known Dr. Kristen Hick for nearly the last decade, I have been fortunate enough to watch the passion (at some points, literally watching at her side) and focus this psychologist takes in caring for her clients, everyday. She demonstrates an unswerving commitment to traveling difficult terrain with some highly sensitive and injured people, while always adhering to the professional ethics of our discipline. Helping to navigate the difficult straits of close relationships—with some who are stuck in a fatiguing churn of online dating, the painful process of a break-up or divorce, or with others too gun shy from trauma and pain to even begin to engage in becoming vulnerable through relationships—is an area Dr Hick has become expert in over her career. As a result of her attention to this area of everyday life, she now possesses a highly attuned and expansive vocabulary for the patterns she has seen emerge in her clients. The result of all this focus on relationships? A way to help adults, longing for relationships of substance and safety, create new, healthier relationship patterns as they go through their lives."
~David Rakofsky, Psy.D., Colleague and Former Supervisor, President of Wellington Counseling Group, Chicago
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Frequently Asked Questions

Please check back soon to see what resources Center for Shared Insight has for you.

Choosing a therapist who's right for you is perhaps the most important, yet difficult part of beginning therapy. Finding a good therapist-client fit is important in helping you feel understood, invested in the process, and making progress.

We've outlined five aspects of how to choose a therapist that's right for you in this short video.

Contact our team with questions and learn which therapist might be the right fit for you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3a9PfxI9ok&feature=youtu.be

 

We understand that you may have been in therapy before and may have had a less-than-favorable experience. Our team of therapists are committed to providing confidential, ethical, professional, and evidenced-based treatment based on the philosophy of attachment theory. Our approach also focuses on the source of the problem and solution – you. By helping you improve your relationship to yourself, and understanding the underlying reasons for challenges, you develop skills to improve your relationship with others.

Many people believe that therapy is not for them because they’ve been told that entering therapy means they are “weak” or “going crazy.” Nothing could be further from the truth. Having the courage to ask for help during a time of need is a source of strength and a sign of health. Therapy helps people with all kinds of concerns, from mild, everyday concerns to more serious emotional and behavioral issues. Contact our team of Denver psychologists, and learn how therapy can benefit you.

All psychologists at Center for Shared Insight are mental health professionals with various specialties, education and training requirements.

UNLICENSED PSYCHOTHERAPISTS (formerly called Registered Psychotherapists in CO before 7/2020) is a psychotherapist listed in the State's database authorized to practice psychotherapy in Colorado but not licensed by the state and not required to satisfy any standardized educational or testing requirements to obtain a registration from the state.

A LICENSED CLINICAL SOCIAL WORKER (LCSW), LICENSED PROFESSIONAL COUNSELOR (LCPC), or MARRIAGE AND FAMILY THERAPIST (LMFT) completes a master’s degree in social work, counseling or marriage and family therapy, must have a minimum of two years of supervised clinical experience, and is required to pass a state licensed exam.

A LICENSED PSYCHOLOGIST (PH.D. OR PSY.D.) must complete a doctoral program in psychology (Ph.D. or Psy.D.), be trained in theory and practice of psychotherapy, diagnosis, assessment, research and treatment of mental disorders and administration of psychological tests. He or she also must perform a minimum of two years of supervised clinical experience and pass a state licensed exam.

A PSYCHIATRIST completes a full medical degree equivalent to any other Medical Doctor (MD) with specialty training in psychology and psychiatric medications and is the only mental health professional who is able to prescribe medications in Colorado. Some offer psychotherapy, but most focus on the prescription of psychiatric medications and they are required to pass state licensed exams.

OUR TEAM

    Headshot of Kristen Hick, Photo credit: Steve Stanton

    Dr. Kristen Hick Psy.D.

    "My journey in relationship work began long before I put on my high school cap and gown. Always interested in the dating issues of friends, wanting to ease and "fix" family conflict, and then later, personally struggling to break free of unhealthy dating patterns, I've been studying relationships all my life - inside and outside of the classroom. It was through working on my relationship with myself that I found true transformation in my relationships.

    Now, it's my mission to help others with relationship concerns - ...

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BLOGS

Relationship Reflection: Are You Cultivating or Diminishing Connection?

May 19, 2024

As a Denver therapist specializing in attachment theory, I often work with clients who are working through challenging dynamics within a relationship. The dance of connection is full of steps and moves that impact the overall harmony between partners. Learning to ask yourself “will this create distance or connection?” ...

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Covert Narcissism: Recognizing Subtle Signs in Relationships

March 5, 2024

Our perception of narcissism has evolved beyond labeling individuals as “narcissists” when they act overly self-important. While characteristics associated with overt types of narcissism often grabs our attention, its lesser-known counterpart, covert narcissism, is often more subtle in relationships. In this blog post, we'll explore covert narcissism, its prevalence, ...

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Beige Flags: Embracing ‘Normal’ in Relationships

December 1, 2023

Imagine a world where you are not energized by the drama in your romantic life, the excitement of your dating stories, or the craziness of your relationship experiences. Can you picture a life where you are content with the ordinary moments of dating and embrace the beauty of ...

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